Cham is a friend I first met in high school. We became very close and then went separate ways only find ourselves together again in college. And because of that, he’s my only friend who also has his own personal relationships with all my closest friends. If there’s such thing as a lingering friend, he’s that and I like it. 
He celebrated his birthday last weekend with a party I’ve never seen before. Darn! We really are grown ups now.
Pictures after the jump…
I’ve always known Cham to have grand ideas. He celebrated his birthday in a gay bar and sponsored a Bikini Open pageant. Grabe! I know people are prejudiced towards places as such and the people who go there. It’s easy to say that we went there for the boys and sex disregarding the fact that it was a birthday party. The boys were nice to look at and an added treat for an interesting party, but I would still have gone there if girls were dancing on stage. Or even if Cham celebrated at home. Well, I can go on and on to defend my position about going there but they are unnecessary. 
